If you are a woman wondering how to keep the attention of your man, this post is just for you. Here is a list of actions a woman should take that will make her man love loving her.
1. CORRECT HIM
Men love it when the woman tells him when he is wrong. The problem is many women don’t know how to correct. Correct him with love. “Honey, don’t you think it would have been better if…” Don’t scold him like he is a little boy. Approach and tone are key. Don’t attack.
2. CHALLENGE HIM
Do greater things of your own, inspire him, expose him to greatness, make progress in your life such that he feels he needs to pull up his socks. Don’t just sit lazily. A man wants a woman who is hungry for her own personal growth. Challenging him doesn’t mean looking down on him or asking why can’t he be like other men.
3. NEED HIM
Men love feeling needed. Lovingly ask him for help, ask him for advice, “My love, what do you think I should do?” Involve him in your life and when he does help, thank him.
4. PRAY FOR HIM
No matter the level of a man’s spirituality, prayer is respected and considered sacred. Pray for him, let him hear you pray for him.
5. PRAISE HIM
The kind of compliments men love are, “You are such a good man”, “You make a great dad”, “Your mind is incredible”, “You have a sexy body”, “I love how you touch me”, “My honey, I am proud of you”. Praise him in private and in public. Don’t be that woman who is quick to point out his flaws but rarely highlights what he does right.
6. MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES
Many women think sex is to be left to the man, so they wait for the man to make advances. They become passive and shy during sex. Lady, your husband will love it sometimes if you are sexually aggressive, ask for his body, reach for his penis. Show him that you know he belongs to you. Make sex an adventure.
7. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM
Ask him how his day was, his dreams; ask if he is OK. Most women want the man to show interest but they don’t show interest in return.
8. TRUST HIM, DON’T MICROMANAGE HIM
Don’t be overly possessive, demanding him to spend every second with you. Snooping his phone and doubting him when you find nothing, being suspicious of him, choking his social life are not signs of trust. Be mature. If you push him away, he will keep things from you then things will get ugly. Most men keep things from their women, not because they are doing something wrong but because their women read too much into everything and pick up fights. This is dangerous. You are his Queen, wear your crown with confidence.
9. COMPLAIN LESS
So many women don’t even know they complain, they think they are simply expressing their right to speak and get things done properly. But men dislike a complaining woman. If he doesn’t do things as you like, if he is not at your level; don’t attack and nag. Just simply request him to do things a better way, but as you do so, appreciate the much he has done so far.
10. GIVE HIM PEACE
This is what we all want when with a person. Peace. Peace at home. No fights, no frustrations, no stress. If your man is spending less time with you, perhaps you’re not giving him peace. Men avoid complicated and draining environments. Lady, you complaining every day to him that he doesn’t spend much time with you makes things worse. You think you are putting your point across but he feels pushed away. Attract him to you by giving him peace. Some men stay out there, not looking for a woman, but looking for peace.
11. LOOK GOOD
Dress up, look sexy. Don’t look good only when you are outside the home, look good also when it’s just you two.
12. TREAT HIM
Cater to him, cook for him, buy him gifts, treat him like a king, straighten his tie. These simple things mean a lot to him, even if not every day, do it often.
13. HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS
Men get attracted to good conversations. They want laughter, depth, intelligent conversations. They want to be listened to, to be wowed by a woman’s mind. A woman who talks lovey-dovey stuff but also about business, investments, social issues, and vision; that woman is a keeper.
14. EAT WITH HIM
Men love a good meal. Make it a habit to eat with him. Food brings people together.
15. BE ADMIRABLE
Succeed in your personal life, do great things outside your marriage. Shine as a woman. Make him proud to say, “That is my wife”. Even the Proverbs 31 husband calls his wife “Blessed”.
16. BE FRIENDLY WITH HIS FRIENDS
Don’t fight his friends. Find out who his friends are, get to have laughs and talks with them. Support his social life, be good to his family and siblings. If you have an issue with one of them, bring it to his attention without starting a war. Allow him to also know your friends. When you both do this, it makes both of you feel secure.
17. MAKE AN EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HE LIKES
Find out what he likes and spend time with him once in a while doing that thing. If he loves rugby, watch matches with him sometimes; if he wins an award, go cheer him as he receives it; be his fan!
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