17 ways you can be the strong woman he needs
Its the month of March, Women’s History Month. Women use month to empore themselves and learn way to be strong and independent. But women also need to learn to be strong for their men. Below are 17 ways you can be the strong woman he’s been looking for.
- Have Strength
Don’t talk about how strong you are. Just be strong. Endure hardships, solve problems, press on. Don’t be the dog that barks, be the dog that bites.
- Be You
Have friends, even if he doesn’t like them. Have opinions, even if they’re different than his. Especially if they’re different.
- Be Independent
This applies to men just as much as women, but there’s nothing s3xier than someone that can take care of themselves. A relationship should be a partnership, not raising a child-like dependent.
- Bring Something to the Table, and Demand He Do the Same
You’re valuable. Understand your value, and know what you bring into a relationship. Don’t tolerate someone looking to lounge in your life.
Be opinionated and strong-willed. Don’t be a push-over, but understand the line between sticking to your guns and resolving issues. Walk that line.
- Say What You Mean, and Mean What You Say
Women have the habit of dropping hints, or dancing around issues and this can be annoyin to men. Don’t dance around issues or placate. Don’t drop hints or be assuming. Be forthright and demand the same in return.
- Don’t Get Jealous
Relationships are about trust. You either trust him or you don’t. If you don’t, that’s an issue. Move on. If you do, that should be the end of it. Know that you’re worth the commitment, and anyone looking elsewhere isn’t worth your time.
- Don’t Tolerate Disrespect
You need someone that will fight for you, not with you. Be respectful in return and show him how it’s done.
- Be Reliable
If you say you’re going to do something, do it, or have a damn fine reason why you couldn’t. Expect the same of him.
- Have Hobbies
Be a woman with interests and do them. Include him if you can, but if not, don’t stop doing what you love.
- Have Goals
And pursue them. Be a woman with the ambition to achieve. You don’t have to move mountains, but don’t let yourself get stuck in a rut, either.
- See the Strength in Him
Part of being strong is recognizing the strength in others. Let him know what you like about him.
Be honest, but supportive. Encourage him. You just may be the first person to do so.
- Stick Up for Yourself
If you respect yourself, he will too
- Accept Help When You Need It
There is strength in knowing when you can’t do something on your own and asking for help, instead of constantly hitting your head against a wall.
- When You Make a Schedule, Keep to It
If you have a class you’re taking or plans with a friend, don’t give those up to spend time with him. He’ll respect your loyalty and commitment. Fit him into your life, don’t rearrange your life around him.
- Be Beautiful
You are beautiful, so act like it; and never let anyone convince you that you are anything less.